The Power of the Right Response: Lessons from Jesus on the Cross and Erika Kirk’s Forgiveness

“The power of the right response is something all believers must pray for. It is the height of true Christian living.”

Dunmininu Makoyawo

How do you respond when life hits you hard—when someone offends you, betrays you, or wounds you deeply? As Christians, our response is not just a reflection of our emotions, but a reflection of Christ in us. The Bible is clear: the way we respond reveals the depth of our walk with God.

Jesus on the Cross: The Ultimate Example

On the cross, in the most painful moment of His earthly life, Jesus uttered words that shock the human mind: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). Instead of responding with anger or cursing His persecutors, Jesus responded with love and mercy. This was not weakness—this was power. The power of the right response.

Think about it: if the Son of God, in agony, could respond with forgiveness, what excuse do we have when we lash out at small offenses? His response wasn’t natural—it was supernatural. And that’s exactly what every believer is called to live out.

Erika Kirk’s Response to Tragedy

Fast forward to our world today. Erika Kirk, wife of conservative commentator Charlie Kirk, recently gave a testimony that left millions stunned. After her husband’s tragic death, she stood at his memorial service and publicly forgave the one responsible. Instead of responding with vengeance, Erika chose mercy. Her words echoed Jesus’s example on the cross.

You can watch her full speech here on YouTube. It’s a living example of how the power of Christ enables believers to respond differently from the world.

Her response was not normal. Humanly speaking, it is impossible to look into the face of the one who caused your deepest pain and respond with grace. But that’s the gospel at work: Christ in us, the hope of glory (Colossians 1:27).

Why the Right Response Matters

The right response doesn’t just change your situation—it transforms hearts. Imagine if Jesus had cursed His enemies on the cross. The message of the gospel would have been weakened. Imagine if Erika had responded with hatred—her testimony would not have touched lives worldwide. Our responses carry eternal weight.

Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Every day, in our homes, workplaces, marriages, and even in traffic, we face moments where the wrong response can escalate chaos, while the right response can bring peace.

How Christians Can Apply This Daily

  • Pause before you speak: James 1:19 says, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” A pause can prevent regret.
  • Pray for grace daily: Ask the Holy Spirit to help you respond like Jesus, not like your flesh.
  • Remember eternity: Your response may be the only gospel someone sees today. Will they see Christ in you?
  • Practice forgiveness: Forgiveness is not a feeling; it’s a decision empowered by God’s Spirit.
  • Use your words to bless: Ephesians 4:29 teaches us to speak only what builds others up. If your words don’t heal, hold them back.

Bible Verses About the Right Response

  • Luke 23:34 – “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
  • Romans 12:17-18 – “Do not repay anyone evil for evil… If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
  • Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
  • James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
  • Matthew 5:44 – “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
  • Ephesians 4:29 – “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up.”

Relatable Everyday Scenarios

Maybe you’re not hanging on a cross or speaking at a memorial, but your daily life is full of opportunities to apply this truth:

  • When your spouse snaps at you—respond with patience.
  • When a colleague takes credit for your work—choose integrity, not revenge.
  • When someone cuts you off in traffic—choose peace over rage.
  • When a friend betrays you—choose forgiveness, not bitterness.

In these small daily decisions, we either look like the world or like Christ.

Internal Links for Deeper Growth

If this message resonates with you, I encourage you to also read Led or Driven? 10 Dangers of Chasing Success Without the Spirit of God. It will challenge you to live a Spirit-led life where your responses reflect God’s heart. You may also find strength in our Prayer Bank where prayers are tailored for life’s toughest moments.

Deliberate Charge

Every Christian must make this choice daily: Will I respond like Christ, or will I react like the world? The right response is not easy, but it is possible through the power of the Holy Spirit. Erika Kirk’s story and Jesus’s words on the cross remind us that forgiveness and grace are not optional—they are the very essence of Christian living.

Get Deliberate

Pause today and reflect: How do I respond when I’m hurt? Do I mirror Christ or my flesh? Write down one area where you struggle with your responses, and pray about it daily this week.

Prayer

Lord, help me to always have the right response, even when it hurts. Fill my heart with Your Spirit so that I can respond with grace, forgiveness, and love, just like Jesus did on the cross. Amen.

If you want to love like this, comment: “Lord, help me to always have the right response.”

Engage With Us

What’s the hardest situation where you’ve had to choose the right response? Share your story in the comments—we’d love to hear from you. And if Erika Kirk’s story touched you, share this post so others can be inspired to live with Christlike responses.


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